Task #6: Developing an Escape Plan
By Kevin Leapley, MA, LPC, CSAT on Tuesday, February 3rd, 2015 in Sexual Addiction. No Comments
Front Range Counseling Center has counselors that specialize in sexual addiction counseling and provide men’s sexual addiction group therapy groups in both its Denver Southeast office and Littleton office. We enjoy writing articles about sexual addiction topics and how best to make sure you fully understand the real issues underneath the addiction. We also try to provide tools for relapse prevention, working recovery, healing for the partner, and what to expect from counseling.
We believe there is no one way to work recovery so within this blog we try to provide many different ideas and ways to work your journey of healing and freedom. We also strongly believe that a sex addict and his/her partner need marriage counseling from a therapist who understands the special circumstances and direction for your relationship to experience restoration. Call us today at 303-933-5800 or request information through our contact form.
By Kevin Leapley, MA, LPC, CSAT on Tuesday, February 3rd, 2015 in Sexual Addiction. No Comments
Sex Addiction Recovery: Escape Plan In sexual addiction recovery, an Escape Plan involves your own personal plan for breaking your behavior pattern when you begin to feel sexually triggered and you begin contemplating acting out. Despite you best efforts to work your program of recovery, you find yourself in the midst of sexual obsession, fantasy, […]
By Kevin Leapley, MA, LPC, CSAT on Thursday, January 29th, 2015 in Sexual Addiction. No Comments
Dr. Patrick Carnes has described addiction as the avoidance of reality at any cost and recovery as facing reality at any cost. Therefore, recovery from sex addiction cannot be accomplished without establishing boundaries against using other substances (i.e, alcohol, drugs, or food) to alter your mood or avoid reality. For many sex addicts, stopping the […]
By Kevin Leapley, MA, LPC, CSAT on Monday, January 26th, 2015 in Sexual Addiction. No Comments
Twenty years ago, sex addicts had to get their sex “fix” from public places such as magazine racks, strip clubs, adult bookstores, or video stores. The sex addict had the potential embarrassment of being seen and recognized. He also was limited to the materials offered by the specific establishment. With the age of the internet, the […]
By Kevin Leapley, MA, LPC, CSAT on Thursday, January 15th, 2015 in Sexual Addiction. No Comments
Boundary: Printed Materials For many sex addicts, their acting out focused mainly upon images within printed materials (i.e., magazines, internet, newspapers, etc.). Simply seeing an image of a woman, man, or scene can trigger the sex addict into objectifying other people and fall into a relapse of sexual fantasizes. The images don’t necessarily need to […]
By Kevin Leapley, MA, LPC, CSAT on Monday, January 12th, 2015 in Sexual Addiction. No Comments
People Boundaries In our past acting out we have established relationships with people that encouraged our destructive lifestyle. Sex addicts will often make connections with other sex addicts and sex addiction group recovery may require that you give up those relationships (at least for the first year of recovery). You may even look at your […]
By Kevin Leapley, MA, LPC, CSAT on Wednesday, January 7th, 2015 in Sexual Addiction. No Comments
Sex Addiction Boundary: Media Our cultural environment values sexual expression and takes great liberty in expressing those values in television, movies, and internet videos. For the sex addict, this is another area to establish strong boundaries to avoid being triggered into fantasies and acting out.
By Kevin Leapley, MA, LPC, CSAT on Wednesday, December 24th, 2014 in Sexual Addiction. No Comments
Sexual Addiction Recovery Boundary 1: Places At Front Range Counseling Center, our sexual addiction therapists believe it is important to establish boundaries in the beginning of sexual addiction recovery. Here is boundary #1: Places
By Kevin Leapley, MA, LPC, CSAT on Monday, December 15th, 2014 in Sexual Addiction. No Comments
Boundary #5: Self-Boundaries At Front Range Counseling Center, we recommend setting boundaries for sexual addiction recovery. Here is information on boundaries: Boundaries are what keep you safe and place a protective barrier around you to keep you from sexually acting out. Sexual addiction involves patterns of thought, association with others, and behavior that frequently lead […]
By Kevin Leapley, MA, LPC, CSAT on Saturday, December 6th, 2014 in Sexual Addiction. No Comments
Defining Your Sobriety To establish sobriety, we must first define it. “Sobriety” – when used in reference to compulsive sexual behavior – is the state of living that is free from the addictive or compulsive behavior. Sexual sobriety is not the same thing as sexual purity … it’s not sexual perfection. It is the ongoing […]
By Kevin Leapley, MA, LPC, CSAT on Tuesday, August 19th, 2014 in Sexual Addiction. No Comments
Differing Realities For Couples His Reality: “I’m becoming a man of integrity” Her Reality: “I’ve been betrayed”His Reality: “I’ve never loved her more.”Her Reality: “I’ve never felt less loved or less worthy.”His Reality: “I’m beginning to see how much I value our marriage.”Her Reality: “I’ve never realized until now how little the marriage meant to […]